Have You Ever Observed?
When some people walks in to the room, They bring a smile on the audience face. They just light up the entire place and radiates a positive vibe.
Most of the time, We like people who have the same qualities that we like about ourselves and in other times we like people who are better than us. When we meet some one, we look for qualities that are similar or different than us before our mind conclude whether to like them or not. We all want our opinions to be shared and we like it when someone sees us the way we want us to be seen. When you get along with someone based on your first impression, the reason could be your brains may literally be on the same wavelength.
Some of the Elements of Successful People who can Attract, Impress and Convince others are
Confidence - They have confidence in themselves
Concise Conversation - They use limited yet powerful sentences based on facts, figures and logical arguments
Interesting Character - They are interesting to talk with and not boring at all
Wave Length - They connects at an emotional level, speaks your language at your wave length
Good Listener- They listens to what you have to say and understands it
Attire & Appearance - They dress to impress and wear an attire that matches the occasion
Add Value for Others - They add value to other people before expecting something in return
Patience - They have patience and persistence
Being Scarce - They use principle of scarcity and unavailability for their success
Reiterate the Conversation - They reiterate what they say and hear, till they understands or you understands
Transparent - They are transparent in their dealings and express their opinions with out fear
Original & Unique - They are original and have a unique approach in everything they do
Over and above all these, you as a listener feel like being connected with them as someone you knew for ages. This feeling helps the other person influence you. You start feeling what ever they are saying is logical, appealing and correct. An impressive personality has the ability to personally affect the actions, decisions, opinions, emotions and thinking of others.
Successful people are excellent Communicators and they have a good Communication Skills
Communication Skills are the act of transferring information from one person to another. It may be vocally (using voice), written (using printed or digital media such as books, magazines, websites or emails), visually (using logos, maps, charts or graphs) or non-verbally (using body language, gestures and the tone and pitch of voice). Most of the time, it is often a combination of several of these.
If you want to be like them, Attractive, Magnetic, Charismatic, Impressive with an Ability to Convince Anyone with Confidence.
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