Hey There, I believe that your self-Confidence is like a start at night that shines brightest when it is the darkest. It is your inner light that burns brightly and freely no matter what is happening around you.
A Zen saying reminds us: “What was your Original Face before you were born?”
Self-Confidence is perfectly intact when we are born, in fact, it is inherent to us; however, it often diminishes over the course of our childhood. We lose a little of it whenever we fail, make mistakes, misbehave, feel guilty, refuse to forgive, neglect ourselves, and do things we are ashamed of. As an adult, we sometimes feel as if our “Self” is in pieces -- that we are somehow not whole and complete.
This is not true. We are whole and complete even with our missing pieces and broken parts. We just need to decide to gather up ourselves and become whole again. I am willing to bet that when you look back over your life, the first thing that comes to mind are the regrets, the sad times in your past.
Do you see the pieces of yourself lying along the path of your life? The ones where you didn’t feel good enough, or where you were criticized or blamed by someone else? But have you ever stopped to look at the memories of when you won the prize, felt really great, on top of the world ---those moments that prove what a wonderful amazing human being you are?
It is your Birthright to love and honour yourself. The Good news is that you can reclaim that which is yours. That is your Self-Confidence.
It is never too late to build your self-confidence. You can start RIGHT NOW! Self-Confidence has a big impact on how we Enjoy Life. Respect Others, Yourself, and life in general. Practice the techniques we have given you every single day. Watch them work wonders in your life.
Become the person you can be and treat yourself well. You Deserve It!
